You might be hearing this story
many times about body and mind reflexes experiment of frog and hot water.
In brief,
Put a frog in a vessel of water
and start heating the water.
As the temperature of the water
rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly. The frog
keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature...
Just when the water is about to
reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore...
At that point, the frog decides
to jump out. The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it has lost
all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature...
Very soon the frog dies.
What killed the frog?
Many of us would say the
boiling water...But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to
decide when it had to jump out.
We all need to adjust with
people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we
need to confront/face.
There are times when we need to
face the situation and take the appropriate action...
If we allow people to exploit
us physically, mentally, emotionally or financially, they will continue to do
so...
We have to decide when to jump.
Why I mentioned about this
story?
*When I want to do MBA, my family
members decided to see matches for marriage. But I am completely discomfort
about their decision like the person who I need to marry. They have kept many
rules and I need to stop my dream – MBA…..But things are not in my hands I obeyed
elder’s words….seen the person who is the richest person in Andhra Pradesh and Telangana
(3rd generation person of their gold business).
Days are going on……. I was
unable to take decision….finally I said strongly to my entire and their family members
that “I want to do MBA I am not interested in him to marry” so my family members
obeyed my words and cancelled that match I continued my higher education.
MY CONCLUSION:
*If I were listened to my
elders words and that to marry that particular person I may stuck up in graduation
itself and in my future just by seeing my certificates I may well depressed
about by discontinued MBA. So, I took life risk decision and managed to do MBA
by convincing all elders in my family. And now I am MBA graduate also Blog
Writer.
Higher education is not easy
for a girl. Just think about it………..
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