Thursday, March 15, 2018

READ THIS BOOK: STRIKING STORIES ON LOVE AND ROMANCE – SPREAD THE MESSAGE OF LOVE – PROFESSOR M.S.RAO


“A woman’s greatest strength is her emotion, but it is also her greatest weakness.” – David Smith

About This Book:

This book is written by Professor M.S.Rao, Ph.D (International leadership guru). First edition: April 2014. Published by Shroff Publishers and Distributors Pvt. Ltd, Mumbai, India and printed at ReproIndia Ltd. Mumbai, India

This book is all about Striking Stories on,

1. What is valentine day? What is Love?
2. Campus Love
3. Teenage Love
4. First Love
5. We are friends forever
6. Men may Love many women but a woman loves only one man in her lifetime
7. A woman looks beyond the face of a man
8. Honour your commitment
9. Love is a matter of heart, not the mind
10. Platonic Love
11. Hidden Love
12. Women rarely express their love openly
13. What does a woman see in a man is still a mystery
14. Love is beyond borders
15. When god closes one door, he opens another
16. Never hurt a woman’s heart
17. Loving and living together.

Advantages of this book and my observations:

1. My observations of this book: striking stories on love and romance – spread the message of love is all about educational purposes.

2. Professor M. S. Rao provided a huge collection of quotes which is given by all world famous people. In this book you will find seven pages collected quotations.

3. Robert Sternberg is an American psychologist and psychometrician. He has described ‘triangular theory of love’ with diagram. This book shares several stories on campus love, first love, platonic love, friendship and love that are partly expressed and partly unexpressed. In the concluding chapter, it justifies that authors are great lovers.

4.  I am impressed about this point in acknowledgments page – Writing a book is never a solo project.

5. He explained about Valentine’s Day i.e., February 14 each year.

6. When you are in Love? It is better to express your love and get rejected rather than to keep your love within your heart throughout your lifetime. 

7.  Love depends on the nature of the people and differs from person to person.

8. Sexual attraction is the key to infatuation while psychological attraction is the key to love. Infatuation is up to bed while love is beyond bed.

9. Deepak Chopra once commented, “Sex is always about emotions. Good sex is about free emotions; bad sex is about blocked emotions.”

10. In this book, author is needed to explain more about midlife crisis and midlife love because midlife is very important and divorce rate is more in this age.

11. It is true that in some cultures don’t appreciate old age love.

12. It is true that law of nature - First kiss is the most powerful one in a person’s life.

13. Some people take love casually because they love sex enjoyments, party’s, status feeling and Ego clashes.

14. Every man wants to be praised by a woman – This statement is neutral.

15.  The author stated that love and sex are biological needs. Honor them. Never cheat a woman. It is a good statement. But in some cases, husband gets bored about his wife and keeps illegal sexual relationship with other women’s that’s one of the reasons behind divorce.  

16. All medium body height stories mentioned in this book.

17. Most women don’t express their hidden love to men. It is true statement.

18. Love – a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker.

19. When God closes one door he opens another. – This statement is untruth.

20. The author mentioned in page 152 – Husband must understand the heart of his wife and should not seek divorce on petty issues. This point need to be discussed more in this chapter.

21. In one – sided love; people don’t express their love to others due to various reasons such as personality, cultural, social, economic and religious factors.

22. Don’t forget that you are a special person God created in this world. Remember, there is always someone born in this world. – This statement is neutral.    
  
23. If one man rejects you, search for another man. My opinion - It is difficult to change the heart of the woman when one man rejects.

24. God is great; he connects the right woman for the right man. – This statement is neutral.

25.  A woman can change her mind at any time. – This need to be discussed more in that book.

26. Currently women have become assertive and have started to fight for their rights. Due to empowerment of women, they realize their rights and don’t want to suffer silently like they did in the past. – It’s wrong.

27. Divorce is advisable – when spouse is impotent or when there is no chemistry.

Finally,


If you get what you want, there is a reason. If you don’t get what you want, there is a reason. Nature is intelligent. The divine is intelligent.  - Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

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