My best friend is the one who
brings out the best in me. - Henry Ford Quote
When you first observe the
headline - What Is the Meaning of a Boy and a Girl? Immediately you start
looking into dictionary. After reading that you come to this page and you start
reading this blog http://maddaliswetha.blogspot.in/ and
this topic.
Okay, Calm down.
So, now tell me what is the
exact meaning of a boy and a girl and also gay (In foreign School).
I
tell you the meaning:
In the year 2014,
When I was working as a teacher
for primary school – home tuition in my home.
One girl who have studied in North USA for one year and come to India
and settled in my apartment and her mother joined her in home tuition that’s in
my home.
Once my student asked me teacher what is girl and what is boy? Also what is gay or LGBT? And how to say
that I am a girl and that boy is a boy.
Immediately, my mother said to
that girl – See the dress you wear and the hair you comb and hair plaits
indicate that you are a girl. I was unable to say that the particular meaning
so I was showing her dictionary. My mother said to me - see you are an Indian
so teach her and educate her in your style of an Indian education teaching
style in rural and urban - pre primary teacher training course when student get
doubts.
Again in the year 2015,
My own sister’s son said to what is boy and who is girl and how to difference it. And the boy is 8 years
old age and studying 3rd class. Immediately my father and my own
brother said we are boys or male or men. Boy is one who show or who looks by
his dress code in school and dress in informal way and formal way in functions
and parties also hair cut not like a girl. And this time I was very calm and
listening to their words and conversation.
SEX
Education in India:
Please watch this video (North
Indian Style):
EIC - Sex Education in India - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EiIxkOah09E
I
will say you the real case study in my life:
Usually, I am a creative writer.
My questions would be while I am studying – Who created Math’s, who created
science, who created English in British and American, etc, including other
subjects.
In India, there is a trick in exams.
If the student write exam in a creative
way, he/she gets pass marks or good marks that is completely depending on
examiner and correction pattern. And if the
student write exam in same as in text book and also word to word with line to
line in text book, he/she gets top marks in district and state level ranks too.
I wrote in two ways –
Creativity and same as text book pattern. So, I was the top in 5th class in school. So, my classmates got jealous and some
classmates asking me doubts in class. So, there was a conflict raised in the class.
Boys told me to sit in boys side in class and girls said you should sit with us
only. So, I said I will sit one day in boy’s side and one day in girl’s side.
So, madam principal and vice –
principal cum chairman sir who perform their roles in school perfectly and also
took more care for the students. As such we always feel the school like a home.
My vice – Principal is very
strict in school rules. He has seen me in boy’s side and scolded boys and
started beating on my classmate’s hands (palm) with Neem Tree Stick. We have
some tricks to escape from vice – principal. So, we all too together started
sayings in loud principal Parimala Joel, Parimala Madam.
Immediately, she came and asked
him why you are so angry towards children in this classroom. He said reason
about me – who has sit in boy’s side……………………………………………............ She laughed a
lot and said is there anything written on the walls stating boy side and girl
side. So, he left calmly.
After alterative day, I need to sit so I said
one boy has to sit with girl side and I will come. And boy came and sat. I went
to boy’s side. My vice – Principal came. He has seen me in boy’s side and
scolded boys also girl’s and started beating on my classmates hands (palm) with
Neem Tree Stick. Again, we have some tricks to escape from vice – principal.
So, we all together started sayings in
loud Parimala Joel, Parimala.
Immediately, she came and asked
him why you so are angry towards children in this classroom. He said reason
about me – who have sit in boy’s side……………………………………………............ She laughed
a lot and said is there anything in picture form on the walls stating boy and
girl. So, he left calmly.
So, all girls got angry on me
and said that all these things happening because of you. You boys catch her bag
and her books and catch her Lunch box. I
said no it’s not fair and girls said to me - all is fair and sit with them and
no boy have right to sit with girl’s. We are not interested to take beating.
So, boys got angry this is not fair and some supporter from girls said …….. Yar
(Hyderabadi communication), she is our bench mate. No rules are there. Okay,
that’s fine I will sit with them no problem we all are equal in games period
time.
So what?
One day, my vice – principal is
visiting the class to check the uniform correction of every student in my class
room. Boy’s who are my supporters have told me to sit down and kept 6 bags like
a tent on me and told me not to speak until he goes. So, I waited a long time
and pulling boy’s school uniform shorts. No one is responding to my words, so I
came out and stand in that particular place.
Again, he has seen me. So, we
all together started sayings in loud Parimala Joel, Parimala Madam.
Immediately, she came and asked
him why you are angry towards children in this classroom. He said reason about
me – who have sit in boy’s side……………………………………………............ She said Maddali
Laxmi Swetha from tomorrow you have to wear boy dress and sit and she said who
want to sit in girl’s side wear girl uniform dress.
And girls said if boys who talk
to her in classroom or after school time. She have to sit with boy side. One of
the boy said swetha bye I will meet you in your apartment in mini shop beside
my school. And that boy speaks kannada / tamil is my neignbour who have newly
came to that apartment and I suggested his parents to join in my school – if
there is any transfer problem.
So, he doesn’t know Telugu and
he spoke to me unfortunately my classmates have seen and throw me in boy’s
side. I said this it is not fair enough he is a non-telugu candidate in
Hyderabad (India). He spoken to me after school time that to out of gate. No
rules.
So, I said give me two days
time, they said that we will give you only one day time. So, I have seen a boy classmate
who is going to senior classroom. And I have seen him talking to his cousin – a
long relative.
So, I went to my home
immediately said I need uniform give me a money – no, you are a girl no boy
uniform. I conflicted with my family member – I wear jean and dangri in
function time, I wear like a boy while I am playing cricket and badminton and I
wear short Tucute at night. I wear shoes for school uniform wearing. I wear running
sports girl dress in this apartment.
Then I decided I went to that
particular boy classmate in my classroom and asked hey look here ……………… come to
my home which you can see from our classroom window. Let’s change dress I will
give you my neighbour dress. You have other dress wear it tomorrow I will pay
you money for this dress. Let’s go.
He said no. so, my supporters
in my classroom said go and get that person we will all support you. So, he was
escaping from boy’s side to girl’s side and again girl’s side to boy’s side
also jumping from one place to another.
Every one saying swetha go go
go catch him that side ….. no no come to this side and catch him…………………………………….
Immediately my principal and vice – principal came …………………… why what happened
why you people making sound our ear drums are getting damage.
So, his supporter said swetha
want dress. I said you that on that day who wants to wear boy dress and sit
with boy’s side I want his dress. So, my principal said swethaaaaaaa you are my
cutest girl. Go go get that dress. My vice – principal said no it’s not fair.
So, my principal said so what
all is fair. You have not kept rules to wear uniform dress in admission form
and also you didn’t mention in admission time.
Swetha go get that dress my whole
day support is for you only no classes for you today enjoy. Rag him and get
that dress………………… principal said to him - you (That boy) escape from swetha you
have no dress to change in school until she brings dress from their apartment.
He saying youuuuuuuuuuu
Me: so what?
He: no no no it’s not fair
Me: oooooooooo then come to me and say in my ears
He: No no noooooooo boys please
catch swetha
Me: all boys support me
He: girls help meeeeeeeee
Me: rules are rules
He: No rules from now
Me: no I have one day time
He: youuuuuuu boys help me pleaseeeeeeeeeeee
Me: then give them party – Cadbury
Dairy Milk or kitkat chocolate then my boys will listen to your words
He: youuuuuuu I will kill you
guys, help me pleaseeeeeeeeee
Me: Okay you want help then
give the dress or come to my home.
He: Girls pleaseeeeeeee catch her
Girls: If swetha say sorry. We
will
Me: noooooooo way I hate that
word lifetime
He: Swetha you say sorry I will
give dress
Me: okay, I write on the black board
Girls: no we will not accept it
Me: what you asked that particular word I wrote it
He: Oh god! Help me from this devil
Me: god takes time to help you,
come I will help
He: noooooooooooo
Then immediately our 10th
class senior came why what happened why you are making noise.
Me: no it’s our problem. Say
guys
He: no pleaseeee says that I
need help
Me: nooooooo help my son you
are completely booked today.
He: youuuuuuuuuu monkey,
donkey.
Me: what you call me like that,
all boys and girls catch him
He: noooooooo it’s not fair
Me: All is fair chimpanzee.
Come here
Immediately a group girls and
group boys of 10th class came and catch us also picked our both ear and
took to their classroom.
And show us Oxford Dictionaries
to me and that boy. Explained about what is boy and what is girl
So, the meaning is:
Boy: A male child or youth. Boyfriend
or fatherhood or boyhood
Girl: a female child, a young
or relatively young woman. Girlfriend or motherhood
I have brought another
dictionary and show them the meaning of a boy or girl is identified by the
dress there wear.
My vice – principal came and
said both are correct and no discussions……………. go to your classroom.
So, this topic – THE END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I GOT MY SEAT. :)
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