Tuesday, November 23, 2021

HOW I SPENT 1000 RUPEES WHICH WAS GIVEN BY MY FATHER IN MY MBA TIME?

 “Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

 

Good morning to all readers and viewers of my blog – Maddali Swetha Blog - http://maddaliswetha.blogspot.com/ (IDEAS CAN BE LIFE CHANGING).

 

Now, I am going to talk about my story which happened in my MBA Time. Why I am saying this to you? Because I am a student at that age. 

 

Let’s start this wonderful story:

 

This happened on Friday – I went out to bring flowers in my apartment trees. When I was bringing flowers home, I was thinking - What is this life?

 

After I came home, I was preparing to go to college and my father came home. My father is a bank manager and he was in transfer living in Warangal (Telangana) on those days.

 

Every week he comes home and spend time with us in Hyderabad (Telangana), again the next morning he goes back to Warangal (Telangana).

 

Immediately, when I saw him, I got angry and said to my father – My elder sister studied in a richer college, my brother is studying in the richest college and you joined me in Only Rich college. They go to college in their college bus and sometimes in cycle and scooty.

 

I go to college by walking or in a sharing auto rickshaw, everyday which is very crowded. Also, YOU NEVER BUY ME ANYTHING.

 

My father said to me that what I don’t buy you anything. Here, is 1000 Rupees – “GO AND MAKE EXPENDITURE – It’s Your Wish, It’s Your Day!

 

Again, I am saying – It’s 1000 Rupees and it’s my day!

 

On that day, I didn’t go to college took that 1000 rupees started shopping in my area surroundings only.

 

These are the questions that raised in my mind and the answers which my heart saying:

 

Question 1: I went to the bakery - Want to buy a sweet bread pack.

My Answer: When the bakery man showed fresh sweet bread to me. I was thinking - Every day I eat sweet bread in snack time – It is already there in my home. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to the other shop.

 

Question 2: I Went to the Kirana Shop to buy chocolate, biscuits, etc.

My Answer: When I went to the kirana shop – I was thinking - Just today only my father brought all things to home. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop. 

 

Question 3: I went to a sweet shop to buy sweets and hots – To buy snacks items?

My Answer: I have seen all snacks items that were displayed in that shop. Immediately I was thinking – Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Tuesday, my mother makes sweets and hots - when I return home. My mother serves me food. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

Question 4: I went to clothing store - To buy a new dress?

My Answer: I went to clothing store and said I have 1000 rupees. I want to buy a new dress. They were showing all dresses in different colours. I was thinking - Just recently my sister marriage held. I have a lot of dresses in my room and every year on my birthday - my parents buy me dresses, some are gifted.  Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

Question 5: I went to a temple to do charity of this 1000 rupees?

My answer: My telugu teacher said in my school days, if you give money to God, God will give you back in future. From school age to MBA – on the way, you will find temples. I have a habit of visiting temple every day.

 

So, when I entered inside the temple, I was thinking – This is my day, if I give it to God I have to wait for many years. This is 1000 rupees and it’s my day. 

 

After some time, I came out of the temple and there was a beggar asking me – “Swetha can you give me some money. You have 1000 Rupees in your hand, when he is asking for money – I felt that I also begged money from my father saying” – You Never Buy Me Anything.

 

I said to the beggar – I will get change from other shop and give it to you. Wait for some time. And I left the temple and went to the shop.

 

Question 6: I went to a beauty parlour for a haircut (Most stylish)?

My Answer: I asked them to do a haircut for me and that everyone has to say – Oh! Swetha - You look beautiful like a miss world hair style and I should look like a miss world.

 

She said to me, I will cut your long silk hair into short hair. I was thinking - it took so many years to grow this long hair why I need a haircut? There is no need for a haircut and I left that beauty parlour and went to other shop.

 

Question 7: I went to movie the theatre – To watch a movie and eat popcorn?

My Answer: I have asked the movie ticket from the counter to give me a seat in the high row and want to watch a movie on a big screen from the back. He said ticket cost and popcorn cost.

 

I was thinking - every day, we all family sit together and watch all the movies in a week – 10 movies in Television and every Sunday go to the movie theatre and my mother makes popcorn at home. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that theatre and went to other shop.

 

Question 8: I went to a game shop to buy games – To enjoy the day by playing games?

My Answer: I went to a game shop and saw all the games and I was thinking – I have the internet in my home. I play games every day. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

Question 9: I went to a foot wear shop – to buy a foot wear?

My Answer: I said them to show all latest models. When they are showing footwear – I forgot that I am wearing function foot wear and came to buy in this shop. I was thinking – I have regular footwear (White colour) and function footwear. Instead of buying here I can go to fancy store and buy chains. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

Question 10: I went to a fancy store to buy some earrings, bangles, etc.

My Answer: When I was looking at all the items which were was shown by the shopkeeper. I was thinking – I wear gold earrings every day, I have fancy hand rings, I have Real pearl chain with ear rings which was gifted to me by my parents on my birthday, and I have silver foot wear chains. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.  

 

See my Real pearls set in the image below – this is gifted by my parents when I am studying 10th class.

Question 11: I went to a Restaurant to eat - Royal Family Food – Royal Meal – South Indian Pure Vegetarian Food?

My Answer: When I visited, I asked about the food menu and saw the menu list and cost - I was thinking - all food I have eaten on different occasions in my home itself – everyday in life. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

Note: I am a pure vegetarian in my whole life.

 

Question 12: I went to a Mobile shop - To buy the latest mobile?

My Answer: When I visited the mobile shop, I have seen all latest mobiles which were displayed in the shop. When I saw all the mobiles – I was thinking – 3 questions have appeared in my mind.

 

Why I need a new mobile phone? 

See I have a mobile Phone which was gifted by my father on my birthday and I am using it daily.


Why I need to carry my mobile phone? 

My college is near to my home, I have given these numbers to my parents - my classmates, My teacher, My college in-charge, My principal, and college Library teacher. After college I come back home and learn subjects which were taught in college and do homework.

Most of the time I stay in the library that my parents and siblings know it. If I go out, I don’t have a habit of carrying a mobile Phone – I give contact numbers to my parents and siblings. Then Why I need to carry it out? – See, in my school days, there were no mobile - only landlines – We lived happily. Right!


Money for recharge in mobile Phone?

I clean - 2 bathrooms and 2 balconies’ (Deep Cleaning - Monthly), Home Cleaning (Weekly - Sunday), Sofa Cleaning (Monthly), Kitchen Cleaning and Vegetables Cutting (Daily) - Take money from my father and my mother give me pocket money to drink coconut water – everyday.  


Note: I AM SELF-EMPLOYED PERSON. I FEEL GREAT!


Also, I save my earnings for travelling to college and mobile recharge too.  

Why I need a new mobile phone? Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

Question 13: I went to a hand bag shop – To buy a new hand bag?

My Answer: I went to a hand bag shop and I have seen all variety of new hand bags. But I was thinking – I have bags which were my birthday gifts. Why I need to buy? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

Question 14: I went to buy stationary items – To buy new books, pens, etc.

My Answer: When I visited that shop to buy – I was thinking – I have my earned money to buy Books, Pens (Use and throw), Pencils (1 rupee – I buy 2 pencils), I don’t use - white papers books, I use only yellow papers or ash papers books.

 

Remember in India – There is no rule that students should use only white pages book in college.

Why I need to buy costly items? There is no need to buy. So, I left that shop and went to other shop.

 

After some time, I have seen my college classmates coming out from the college gate – I asked them let’s go and enjoy and they told me that Swetha exams are there, we cannot spend time now. See you in college tomorrow. Bye! And they have left!

 

Then after I travelled in sharing auto rickshaw to my home street – when I stepped out my foot wear was need to repair and it was a very sunny climate.

 

I asked the sharing auto rickshaw person - Can you please drop me in my home? I will give you an extra amount – I don’t have extra foot wear to walk and it was a very sunny climate. And he dropped me at my home gate - I said please wait I will get change for 1000 rupees.

 

He said to me - I cannot see a woman walking on a road without footwear, you look like my daughter, it’s your birthday gift and the sharing auto rickshaw left! And I came home.  

 

I came home and said to my father – “Every Street - There is a Bank and Bank Manager, You Don’t Have an Own Home, No Car and How I Can Spend Only 1000 Rupees. It’s not enough! And I cried and slept and he left to Warangal on that night!

 

Likewise, for 3 months – my father and I have no talks.

 

This is the part that you should be surprised – A miracle happened after 3 months.

 

What happened? You tell me! Any guesses!

 

My father came – answered my questions he said:

 

Question 1: You are a Bank Manager?

Answer: Now, I am Asst – Vice President in bank

 

Question 2: You don’t have own home?

Answer: I have purchased a new home with 3 bedrooms and you have a special room also which is very near to your college.

 

Question 3: You don’t have a car?

Answer: Here is my new car and my driving license.

 

Now, here is 2000 Rupees – “GO AND MAKE EXPENDITURE – It’s Your Wish, It’s your day.

 

I was shocked – I said to my father – Father, I have all, no time to spend with friends, Exams are there. Please take back your money.

 

He say’s No - I say’s No ------- After some minutes. There is a big laugh from my back. That’s my mother laughing by seeing both of us.

 

She said to my father and me.

 

Father doesn’t know what to buy! – My daughter doesn’t know what to buy!

 

Let me solve your both problems, come and sit here. Give me that 2000Ruppes.

 

Answer 1: I will pay here college exam fee

Answer 2: I will buy her a new hand watch

Answer 3: Remaining amount - Swetha will pay amount for petrol of your car.

 

Drive her in your car to her friends, relatives, college, exam centre, etc. wherever she likes to visit.

 

See the image below - The hand watch which was gifted by my mother – Whenever I see it on my hand I get laugh and I remember what that day happened in my life. All those are sweet memories in my entire life.



MY CONCLUSION:


Now, I ask you a question – You have read this story. Right! – Now! I ask you – What does an MBA Student want in life?

 

My points which I recognised from this story:

 

POINT 1: To Score Good Marks in Exam

POINT 2: Bring Good Name to Your Parents and Your Family Tree

POINT 3: Good Habits

POINT 4: Earn and Save Money for Future

POINT 5: Be A Self-Respect Person in Life and In Society

POINT 6: Think Twice Before You Speak

 

--------- Save money and money will save you – Indian Saints Quote ---------

 

Thank you for reading and viewing!

Maddali Laxmi Swetha, MBA (HR)

 

Email ID: Maddali_swetha@yahoo.com

 

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My Other Blog:

(Deccan Vysya Patrika – Since 1937) - http://deccanvysya.blogspot.com/  

 

My YouTube channel - Maddali Laxmi Swetha:

https://www.youtube.com/user/maddaliswetha

 

My other YouTube channel - Maddali Swetha Teaching classes:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFePmygQP7vsTzeecSfrMvw

Speaking Tree Blog: https://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/maddali-swetha/blogs

 

Also, you can find in Amazon:

My name was included in a book called - Student Leaders: Growing from Students to CEO’s and the first copy of this book is dedicated to me. - https://tinyurl.com/y2sp7yl4

Saturday, October 30, 2021

CONDOLENCES TO KANNADA ACTOR PUNEETH RAJKUMAR FAMILY

Yesterday, I was watching Chithi 2 Serial in Tamil language and watching News headlines on Google, there it appeared that Actor Puneeth Rajkumar Died due to Heart Attack at the age 46.

 

I was still… until now I cannot forget the movies of his which I have watched in Kannada language on those days.

 

He is the one who is very decent, well mannered. Dialogues with no expression. it seems as the reality of acting where you can observe all in his movies.

 

Today, I have seen some updates of #Puneethrajkumar tweets on twitter updates. There, one of his fans shared this…

 

HE’S NOT JUST An ACTOR – 26 Orphanages, 15 Free Schools, 16 Old Age Home, 19 Goshala and free education for 1800 students, undertaking full expenses for girls who are below poverty finally donated his eyes.

 

But this information hasn’t been updated since yesterday in the Wikipedia of Puneeth Rajkumar Page why?

 

My deepest condolences to Actor Puneeth Rajkumar Family that great people born were and created great history that’s why they are called great personalities. 

 

It is to be noted that donating eyes means giving a life to a person who cannot watch the world and when he/she gets eyes he/she sees his world with other eyes.


And it is great that his father too donated his eyes… That means how much this family was taking care for health.

 

And I have seen Puneeth Rajkumar Fight Corona Workout | Health and Fitness in SIIMA YouTube Channel which was updated on May 13, 2020.

 

And I thank all Hyderabad News channels which were giving updates of the funeral of Actor Puneeth Rajkumar in Telugu Language. And May his soul rest in peace!


Thank you for reading and viewing!

Maddali Laxmi Swetha, MBA (HR)

 

Email ID: Maddali_swetha@yahoo.com

 

My Twitter ID: https://twitter.com/maddali_swetha

 

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My SlideShare Papers: https://www.slideshare.net/MaddaliSwetha 

 

My Blog (Maddali Swetha Blog): http://maddaliswetha.blogspot.com/

 

My Other Blog:

(Deccan Vysya Patrika – Since 1937) - http://deccanvysya.blogspot.com/ 

 

My YouTube channel - Maddali Laxmi Swetha:

https://www.youtube.com/user/maddaliswetha

 

My other YouTube channel - Maddali Swetha Teaching classes:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFePmygQP7vsTzeecSfrMvw

Speaking Tree Blog: https://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/maddali-swetha/blogs

 

Also, you can find in Amazon:

My name was included in a book called - Student Leaders: Growing from Students to CEO’s and the first copy of this book is dedicated to me. - https://tinyurl.com/y2sp7yl4

Thursday, October 28, 2021

HOW I CELEBRATED MY BIRTHDAY – OCTOBER 24, 2021, HYDERABAD, INDIA

 Good morning to all my readers and viewers of my blog – http://maddaliswetha.blogspot.com/ ("IDEAS CAN BE LIFE CHANGING").

 

On October 24, 2021. I celebrated my birthday traditionally like every year in my life.

 

Early in the morning, I woke up - done nice head bath, wear new clothes, went to the pooja room and took blessings from my parents.

 

My Parents took me to Sri Kanyaka Parameswari Temple, Kukatpally, Hyderabad, India.

 

Given name for Archana, after pooja given name for KARTHIKA MASAM 2021 (in other words it is called Deepavali festival pooja). See the below picture:




After pooja we went to Sri Raghavendra Hotel beside Sri Kanyaka Parameswari temple road and had tiffin. This hotel is very famous in Kukatpally, Hyderabad. See the Hotel Sri Raghavendra in below picture:


After having tiffin. We went to an old age welfare centre, Miyapur which is near to our home street. And give money for food.

 

As this centre is run by Brahma kumaris, a very old place. See the images below:


After I donated money, we went home and suddenly my own sister and her kids came and surprised me and also arranged a birthday celebration. See the image below:



NOTE:

In WhatsApp Video call – My own sister’s husband and my own brother and his wife were there until caking cutting time. See all videos and images below:



I have uploaded these videos on my channel – Maddali Laxmi Swetha YouTube Channel where you can see the full video in which I celebrated my entire birthday.

 

We took family pictures too together.  After my birthday celebration, we had lunch which was made by my mother (she makes an excellent recipe within less time and went to my cousin – his second son’s birthday at night in - Bel Posto the Cafe, Jubilee hills, Hyderabad, India. See all images and video below:



A Small Note:

I have lost 7 kgs weight in one month – Naturally - How????

Good Sleep, Yoga, Sudarshan kriya, Full stomach food, 4 litres of water, 6000 footsteps - walk a day.


It was a very happy day! At night, I went to sleep with a happy smile on my dreams. Thanks to God for everything in my life.

 

Thank you for reading and viewing!

Maddali Laxmi Swetha, MBA (HR)

 

Email ID: Maddali_swetha@yahoo.com

 

My Twitter ID: https://twitter.com/maddali_swetha

 

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My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maddali-swetha-a0a424a6

 

My SlideShare Papers: https://www.slideshare.net/MaddaliSwetha 

 

My Blog (Maddali Swetha Blog): http://maddaliswetha.blogspot.com/

 

My Other Blog:

(Deccan Vysya Patrika – Since 1937) - http://deccanvysya.blogspot.com/ 

 

My YouTube channel - Maddali Laxmi Swetha:

https://www.youtube.com/user/maddaliswetha

 

My other YouTube channel - Maddali Swetha Teaching classes:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFePmygQP7vsTzeecSfrMvw

Speaking Tree Blog: https://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/maddali-swetha/blogs

 

Also, you can find in Amazon:

My name was included in a book called - Student Leaders: Growing from Students to CEO’s and the first copy of this book is dedicated to me. - https://tinyurl.com/y2sp7yl4

Saturday, October 02, 2021

DO WE NEED MODERN MAHATMA GANDHI TO THE GENERATION ALPHA STUDENTS?

Good morning to all readers and visitors of my blog!


Every year we celebrate 2nd October as Mahatma Gandhi Jayanti.  Mahatma Gandhi is a father of our nation who was born on 2nd October in the year 1869 and died on 30 January 1948.

 

As we all know about this day - That we celebrate this day in school, colleges, office, etc.

 

But today I want to talk about Modern Gandhi – I mean in the form of cartoons, if he is alive in present days.

 

Just think Gandhi goes for a morning walk to buy fruits and vegetables and see the people, culture, modern technology, students, and how he compares the 1869 years to the year 2020 generation and ask questions to the people and clear his doubts. Just think about it – How beautiful it was?

 

Today’s teachers should give and encourage students to draw cartoons by using the concept -Three Monkeys of Mahatma Gandhi

 

What are 3 Monkeys of Mahatma Gandhi?

See no evil – The monkey which closed its eyes – (First Monkey Face)

Hear no evil - The monkey which closed its ears – (Second Monkey Face)

Speak no evil – The monkey which closed its mouth – (Third Monkey Face)

 

This is the real education that was taught to students on this day. Students focus should be in these modern times and teachers should boost their talents with new concept outcomes. While thinking or drawing cartoons, students’ creativity and memory power increases.

 

NOTE: 

Generation Alpha Students are those who were born in modern technology and grown up with the technology. They keep focus on the internet for every information they search and lead their education through technology.


Thank you for reading and viewing!

Maddali Laxmi Swetha, MBA (HR)

 

Email ID: Maddali_swetha@yahoo.com

 

My Twitter ID: https://twitter.com/maddali_swetha

 

My Quora: https://www.quora.com/profile/Maddali-Swetha

 

My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maddali-swetha-a0a424a6

 

My SlideShare Papers: https://www.slideshare.net/MaddaliSwetha 

 

My Blog (Maddali Swetha Blog): http://maddaliswetha.blogspot.com/

 

My Other Blog:

(Deccan Vysya Patrika – Since 1937) - http://deccanvysya.blogspot.com/  

 

My YouTube channel - Maddali Laxmi Swetha:

https://www.youtube.com/user/maddaliswetha

 

My other YouTube channel - Maddali Swetha Teaching classes:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFePmygQP7vsTzeecSfrMvw

Speaking Tree Blog: https://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/maddali-swetha/blogs

 

Also, you can find in Amazon:

My name was included in a book called - Student Leaders: Growing from Students to CEO’s and the first copy of this book is dedicated to me. - https://tinyurl.com/y2sp7yl4